Prostate massagers/plugs

[ItsAStretchPtownDC]

New to the above and in the gay world I'm a top, and trying to do some exploring. The issue I'm finding is that (as I've tried using a few) unless I'm tensed up, at some point they seem to always get pushed out. It's like there should be a way to 'lock' it in without having to hold it there with a hand. Anyone know of a specific type I should try so that it stays in place? BTW, my weighted nut swinging low and hitting it feels pretty good.

 

[Rustyfarmall]

I have one that holds in pretty good , I don't get much feeling out of it unless I push it toward the prostate . Don't know if it's to short or to small ? But you use it with your hand and it feels good . Just don't feel like I can orgasam with it . I get a few cum drops out but wind up just normally jacking off with it in my ass .

 

[Sizzlestix]

I've experimented with prostate massagers in the past and found that practice is the best teacher. I have sessions less frequently now but, when I was more "in tune" with my massager and manipulating it with my sphincter the closer to nirvana I would get. So, keep at it and your results will benefit.

 

[tundraman]

Many moons ago, I tried out butt plugs and prostate massagers. I never got past a boner. I suspect it had to do with a past history of hemorrhoids and concern over setting a round off.
Everyone has slightly different erogenous triggers and it takes experimentation to find what works and what doesn't for you.

 

[somebody]

Hello ItsAStretchPtownDC. I've been doing prostate massage for almost a year. I also had the same issue at first. It is caused by multiple issues. 1) lack of lube, I know it sounds counter intuitive but what happens is the rectum is 'feeling' this foreign mass and trying to expel it. the lube helps to let the muscles ripple but since the object is slick there is no friction to push it out. 2) weak pc and spincter muscles. Do your kegels for this one. 3) relax and don't think about it. The more you bring attention to it the more the body wants to do something about it. Become zen on the sensations you experience not about the thing stuck up your but. Like stretching it may take some time to really feel this but once you start to realize what is happening hold on. I've rode an orgasm for over an hour. (that feeling you have just before you ejaculate but encompassing the entire body not just your cock, plus there is no ejaculation, it just keeps going)

 

[Theezcure]

Hello ItsAStretchPtownDC. I've been doing prostate massage for almost a year. I also had the same issue at first. It is caused by multiple issues. 1) lack of lube, I know it sounds counter intuitive but what happens is the rectum is 'feeling' this foreign mass and trying to expel it. the lube helps to let the muscles ripple but since the object is slick there is no friction to push it out. 2) weak pc and spincter muscles. Do your kegels for this one. 3) relax and don't think about it. The more you bring attention to it the more the body wants to do something about it. Become zen on the sensations you experience not about the thing stuck up your but. Like stretching it may take some time to really feel this but once you start to realize what is happening hold on. I've rode an orgasm for over an hour. (that feeling you have just before you ejaculate but encompassing the entire body not just your cock, plus there is no ejaculation, it just keeps going)

Very well said. I haven't had any luck but this all makes sense. Makes me want to give it another go.

 

[Mrxxxx]

Hello ItsAStretchPtownDC. I've been doing prostate massage for almost a year. I also had the same issue at first. It is caused by multiple issues. 1) lack of lube, I know it sounds counter intuitive but what happens is the rectum is 'feeling' this foreign mass and trying to expel it. the lube helps to let the muscles ripple but since the object is slick there is no friction to push it out. 2) weak pc and spincter muscles. Do your kegels for this one. 3) relax and don't think about it. The more you bring attention to it the more the body wants to do something about it. Become zen on the sensations you experience not about the thing stuck up your but. Like stretching it may take some time to really feel this but once you start to realize what is happening hold on. I've rode an orgasm for over an hour. (that feeling you have just before you ejaculate but encompassing the entire body not just your cock, plus there is no ejaculation, it just keeps going)

Hi somebody. I know this is an old post but what prostate massager did/do you use? Aneros? I had a program and I believe i was building to what you describe but I somehow lost the flow. What you describe sounds like nirvana to me. I have been able to cum by using a dildo but the 'do nothing' full body orgasm sounds way more enjoyable. You must play with your prostate regularly?

 

[somebody]

I have several. I have the helix & mgx trident along with the progasm jr from aneros. I also have the Njoy pure wand, the pure plug large and the Pfun plug, these are all ss works of art. I also have a few silicone vibrators from plus one.

I've found that getting into the flow to be the most difficult part and once it's lost getting it back is sometimes futile so I just stop.

It was incredible and not something that happens often for me at that intensity. It is so hard to fully describe what it felt like.

I've never ejaculated from p spot stim or anal stim but than I've never been able to 'let myself go' completely enough for that to happen. Long story there.

It varies from a few times a month to a few times a week, depends on my mood. P spot stim is one of those things that if done to much it actually diminishes instead of increase, at least for me. Now that's not to say it's not possible, some guys can do it every day and O every single time just like rubbing one out but I haven't got to that point yet.

 

[ezbuddy]

I just recently purchased an Njoy prostate massager and I really like how it functions. It hits the spot really well.

 

[Roughcum1980]

Just incase anyone is still interested in this thread, I've found the best way to massage my prostate is with a speculum. Basically use the speculum to open up the anus as wide (and as comfortably) as it will go then use a finger or a toy to play with the prostate. It's an amazing feeling!

 

[Highntoit]

VERY cool (but not super surprising) to see some love for the njoy stainless products here. they are awesome, I have a teardrop plug I use occasionally when the mood strikes, and have been wanting the "pfun" plug which is just a little longer and tilts upwards. They are indeed stainless works of art and feel great. I'd love to get a pure wand eventually too, in due time. Whenever I use it I'm always surprised how nice it feels and how nice they are to use.

A few weeks ago I used my njoy plug with a cocksling and a fleshlight... it was very intense! :lol:

 

[Alvinx]

Not much to add, good input on the thread already.

Perhaps my recommendation, from somebody who is still trying to find the perfect spot (not pun intended), is that patience and trying different tools is the way to success in this endeavour, but as with any anal play not always is easy to be on the correct place mentally and physically to get to the zen of good anal play.

Btw I feel I need an njoy now haha

 

[Ayush91]

Again replying to a deep sleep thread... I don´t know if new people are shy of replying to old posts or the user base has decreased over the years Or if there aren't many adventurers (people willing to explore) open to explore their anus left in this day and age

I love to explore it and try new things every chance I get (Not told my wife that part of me as she´d never understand and probably give me a look like there is something wrong with me).

But enough about that for now, back to the topic

Just incase anyone is still interested in this thread, I've found the best way to massage my prostate is with a speculum. Basically use the speculum to open up the anus as wide (and as comfortably) as it will go then use a finger or a toy to play with the prostate. It's an amazing feeling!

This sounds promising. I bought a speculum 1-2 years ago and tried it a few times first just to stretch and see how much I could open... But tried 2-3 times with my fingers without luck. I´ll have to try some of my toys and see if I can´t finally get it.

I´ve tried sooo many prostate massagers out there that it´s embarrassing to admit but never even came close (and why can´t the batteries in these thing last longer for crying out loud??!)

Anywho... since I´ve bumped this thread I´d love to hear your stories and what massagers you have and work for you. Since last comment is almost two years old, there are so many new toys and techniques out there!

 

[somebody]

Not one bit shy to reply to an old thread someone posts intrest in.

I haven't progressed much further than I was back than, and not for lack of trying, no new tools to add. I suspect my issue is a combo of 1) not having any " true alone me time", 2) when I do have some "me time" i almost always have 1 ear open listening for her to walk in preventing me from fully surrendering to the sensations, 3) becoming impatient and rushing or forcing things to move along as i dont get any and want that good stuff now that i know will come if given the time to smolder. It's only when I go to bed and she's asleep next to me can I fully surrender to the sensations but than I usually end up falling asleep right as things start to progress as I'm just tired.

 

[Ayush91]

Not one bit shy to reply to an old thread someone posts intrest in.

I haven't progressed much further than I was back than, and not for lack of trying, no new tools to add. I suspect my issue is a combo of 1) not having any " true alone me time", 2) when I do have some "me time" i almost always have 1 ear open listening for her to walk in preventing me from fully surrendering to the sensations, 3) becoming impatient and rushing or forcing things to move along as i dont get any and want that good stuff now that i know will come if given the time to smolder. It's only when I go to bed and she's asleep next to me can I fully surrender to the sensations but than I usually end up falling asleep right as things start to progress as I'm just tired.

I think I can relate to all of this Need to book a trip for the wife and her friend or something to get this alone time and have time where no one will interrupt while I explore and test

 

[vfrman]

Hi Folks
Well this is my very first entry here and no I am not in the least shy. Only trouble is, age, at 82 I am a fit & slim guy who has one advantage over most. Lost my wife nearly 10 years ago so me time is any time. i tend to post mainly on the E-Stim Forum as I found the delight of stimming in 2019. After buying most electro toys, settled for devices from E-Stim to include insertables. That was another area I had never ventured. What was I missing? Am I Bi? Whatever, I seldom miss a chance to insert ever bigger toys. Started with a tiny Aneros about the size of your thumb, now can insert an excellent silicone from Topped Toys with a circumference of 230mm!
As to Prostate massage I can slip my fist in, never mind a finger & feel the gland (enlarged) does not do a lot for me, but still fun.
My very modest ball stretching to follow.