Too loose?

Electrode

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Hi guys!
First post on forum so I’ll present myself quickly.
I’m a 31y/o guy from Northern France.
After having gotten into ball play with my ex-fiancée with whom I separated last year I have decided to better myself for myself and besides change in lifestyle, activities & diet, the only other physical thing I want to do is to stretch my scrotum.
I had been doing this in a very undisciplined manner before mid to late December, having purchased a 38mm internal diameter magnetic metal ball stretcher from a competitor (which I won’t name obviously) a couple of years ago and that I struggled to (or could not even) get on until a couple of weeks ago & had to take off because of a singular vein which would go pretty blue despite the rest of my scrotum being as usual & I still wore it when I could within reason recently.
The main things I had been using up until now when stretching were silicone rings / faux leather stretchers so pretty mid and after having thoroughly read and studied Jared’s ball stretching guide I was convinced and placed an order after having done my calculations and having found 35mm to 38mm I went with the 38mm based on my experience with the previous metal stretcher I have.
Today I received my 2 WMC weights I ordered from secret leather and I was surprised not only by how ergonomic they truly are but also how easily I was able to put one on after the hot shower I took just before considering how I struggled previously to put on my other metal weight of the same diameter (precision: they are not at all structured the same).
But I am also surprised by how comfortably I can apply Shea Butter between the scrotum and ring with my finger whilst keeping the ring on.
Having had a ball pop through a silicone ring previously and knowing the very /unpleasant/ feeling that produces I’m slightly scared by whether or not I should hold off wearing these until I have the free budget in a couple of months to order a couple of sizes down or whether with other factors such as temperatures throughout the day etc this shouldn’t stop me from wearing it (& later on both of them) until then.
I’m not overly concerned by the gap because it’s still very comfortable and i can’t push or pull my balls through but do you guys have any tips on how much free space is too much free space - without having waited for a ball to pop through to find out?

I hope you all have a great day!
 

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After having moved around for a bit I don’t think it is too lose although I will order a 36mm in the future.
I won’t wear them both as permanent wear for the moment but as far as semi-permanent wear goes I can comfortably put on the second one to my surprise.
 

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I’d mention two things. 1. Don’t be in a hurry! And… 2. Always wear the largest diameter ring you can without it falling off or a testicle popping through.

Usually the only way you can reliably find this out is by wearing your weights 24/7 through different conditions (most notably in cold conditions when everything wants to pull back inside). Wearing around the house for 48 hours when you are not working is a good thing to try because in the event of discomfort you have ready access. When you are confident wear outside 24/7.

Trial and error is really the only way to find out what the true and best size is for you.
 
I’m in no hurry! I’m aware my cords may not be used to the tension so I’m going to take it slowly whatever the case.
But thank you for the second part, that does rest my mind as this is the case. Thank you very much for the reply!
 
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Yeah, I would say you'll be able to wear larger rings (like, taller ones) soon! You do have space for that, but as DaveSmith said, go easy, man! Try to wear the rings you have for 48h first. I've notice the "swelling" of my balls make some "loose" rings pretty tight after 24h on.

Take your time to enjoy this journey! And please share pics!! :D
 
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It's also worth repeating what it says on my profile quote, something I believe in (and not just for ball stretching !) “The journey is more important than the destination” enjoy the sensations and the learning curve along the way. Take time to enjoy it as you go along. Try to do things too fast in ball stretching? It usually ends in grief, then the journey becomes much more difficult and less enjoyable.
 
It's also worth repeating what it says on my profile quote, something I believe in (and not just for ball stretching !) “The journey is more important than the destination” enjoy the sensations and the learning curve along the way. Take time to enjoy it as you go along. Try to do things too fast in ball stretching? It usually ends in grief, then the journey becomes much more difficult and less enjoyable.
Totally agree with this. Great advice!
 
may I suggest using ussrs particularly for sleeping when your sac is warm and relaxed they are easy to put on and remove plus they keep the tension on without the weight 👍